After reading this:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_know_if_you_are_a_transsexual#slide=1
I felt for writing about that myself.
If you read that article then the conclusion is that everyone should known from birth that they are transgender. It does not work like that. It depends on your surroundings, the country you live in, your family and the friends you have around you.
When I just started 'exploring', I felt very insecure about others who would might see it, call me names or any other negative self esteem destroying situations. But by changing you also learn to accept yourself the better, gain more confidence and ignore the negativity. This happens no matter if you are transgender or not.
People ask me, do you want to be a girl? Will you go all the way? Want boobs? Who do you want sex with? When with a woman would you be the man? It is quite personal and rude to ask someone these questions. Although I do understand the curiosity, get to know me first for being me and if I feel comfortable with you then chances are I will start talking about it by myself.
When will you go full-time, or come out of the closet? I never seen a straight person do this and don't see why I should. I shouldn't have to prove myself to anyone and just want to enjoy being me and explore. I believe by taking it slowly people will be able to fill it in by themselves and get used to it in their own pace.
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